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In the days immediately following 9/11, Gail Sheehy went to Middletown,
New Jersey, a community that lost more people in the World
Trade Center than any other outside New York City. For the
better part of two years, Sheehy followed the women, men and
children who remained after the devastation and who continue
to put their lives back together. Sheehy's Middletown, America: One
Town's Passage from Trauma to Hope , was published by Random
House in September 2003 and received wide critical acclaim.
Yet for Sheehy, the Middletown community and the nation, the
story continues and threat remains.
In her book, and later in a series of articles for the New York
Observer, Sheehy continues to tell the story of four widowed moms
from New Jersey who turned their sorrow into action and became
formidable witnesses to the failures of the country’s leaders
to connect the dots before September 11. Sheehy follows the four
moms as they fight White House attempts to thwart the 9/11 Commission.
In addition to her articles for the New York Observer, Sheehy is
regularly featured on radio and television coverage about the failures
before and the aftermath of September 11.
Here is a sampling of her work:
Asbury Park Press
Saturday, May 4, 2002
HEALTH WORKERS STILL LEARNING HOW TO DEAL WITH 9/11 TRAGEDY
Andrea Alexander
Middletown Bureau
TINTON FALLS The worst of the shock, fear and grief felt since
the Sept. 11 attacks may still be ahead. But with little precedent
dealing with catastrophe of magnitude, professionals say they are
learning each day how to help.
"The reality is it is never going to be the same, and there
are people who are now just coming forward seeking help," said
Mary Ann Cernak of the Monmouth County Emergency Response Team.
"And there is no book for how we are supposed to respond. We
are writing the book now, " she said.
Meridian Health System brought area professionals together yesterday
to share their experiences assisting people whose lives changed directly
or indirectly in the tragedy. The event took place at the
Holiday Inn on Hope Road
.
"We are running a marathon," Cernak said. "This isnt
going to be over in the next few months. We have to make sure to
take care of ourselves."
She shared lessons learned in the communities surrounding Oklahoma
City since the attack on the federal building seven years ago that
killed 167 people and wounded hundreds of others.
"In Oklahoma City, people experienced Post Traumatic Stress
Disorder two years after the attack. People from 100 miles away were
affected. Imagine how many people live within 100 miles of New York
City, "
Cernak said.
Professionals expect to learn during the next six months mow many
people will suffer long-term trauma as a result of the attack, said
Tony Trachta, director of Meridian Behavioral Health.
Best-selling author Gail Sheehy spent countless hours with victims
families from Middletown and caregivers who have been on the forefront
of grief research for a book she is working on. Her first book, "Passages,"
about changes people experience in life, stayed on The New York Times
best-seller list for more than three years.
Sheehy spoke to the group about her work yesterday.
"It seemed to me that on Sept. 11 we were suddenly thrust into
a great national passage," Sheehy said.
"We as a country experienced a cataclysmic life accident that
we couldnt prevent or predict. And just as we have heard, the
more unexpected it is, the more traumatic."
Sheehy said she is learning that the grief each family is going through
is unique, despite the fact their loss came from a national disaster.
The attack was a betrayal of the safety many families sought in moving
to Middletown, she said.
"People left behind the big city looking for more space and
proximity to the beach, " she said. "They came here to
buy or build their dream house but as you know, many people
didnt return home that night.
Normally after a fatal accident, survivors will want to know what
happened and who is responsible, Sheehy said. The pain for many families
in the area is heightened because they will never know what happened.
Some will never even receive a body to mourn and bury, she said.
"9-11 was a wake-up call. It told use that we need each other.
That no man, woman, father, mother, child is an island, no matter
how grand their house or how big their checking account," Sheehy
said. "As Americans we have been swept into hyper-individualism.
Many in Middletown didnt know their neighbors. Then the illusion
of security blew up in the faces."
Sheehy predicted the work of groups that formed to help the community
such as Families Assisting Victims of Terror will be
needed for years to come.
"We have to watch out for expecting closure. Some loss is so
large and so great people never get over it and this may be one of
them,"
she said.
Area health care professionals know their job is far from
over. That is why it is important that they learn to protect
themselves, in order to continue helping others," said Lori
Christensen, clinical director of the Regional Trauma Center
in Jersey Shore Medical Center, Neptune. |